RICANBRO

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RICANBRO

A collection of stories, lessons, and perspectives from my journey through dominance and submission.

“Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.”

  • Closing This Chapter

    After two years of building RicanBro, I’ve made the difficult decision to close this chapter. What started as something fun, kinky, and exhilarating eventually became a much bigger part of my life than I realized. I don’t regret the journey or the people I met along the way—but I know it’s time to step away…

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  • The Numbers: Week in Review — Sept. 14

    The Numbers are back—and we’re already up to #69. This week, #44 is gaining toward a new goal, #54 has reduced our entire dynamic to two words, and #58 has blown past a milestone he once thought impossible. Meanwhile, a few familiar numbers have stepped away from their training. Two weeks, very different dynamics, and…

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  • Two Kinds of Subs

    Not all submissives are looking for the same thing. Some are chasing a transaction—the rush of giving only when something is received in return. Others are looking for something deeper: structure, accountability, direction, and a lifestyle built around submission. After years in this space, I’ve learned to recognize the difference.

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  • The Numbers: Week in Review

    A chronic relapser who knew when it was time to step away. A number who disappeared after one wild night. And a new sub whose training followed me all the way to my birthday dinner in Montreal. Welcome to The Numbers: Weekly Report—a new weekly look inside the progress, setbacks, achievements, and evolving dynamics of…

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  • The Power of Denial

    The poll is over, and the majority chose: The Power of Denial. Click ‘Read More’ to view the new post all about denial and its power.

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  • SUBSCRIBER VOTE (REDO): What Should I Write About Next?

    Quick redo: The original poll malfunctioned and unfortunately didn’t allow me to view the results. So, I’m sending this out one more time. Click “Read More” below to view the poll.

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  • SUBSCRIBER VOTE: What Should I Write About Next?

    Subscribers get a say in what comes next. Cast your vote and decide which story I publish next.

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  • What’s with all the numbers?

    A few months into my findom journey, I started realizing the value in numbers. All of a sudden, numbers became sexy. The addition of sends, the negative balances, the overdrafts, the transition of funds from one account to the other. All of it was proof. Proof of submission, proof of desperation, proof of usefulness. I…

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  • How I Got Here

    I started my findom journey a little over two years ago, although looking back, the pieces of it had probably been there long before I ever had a name for it. For years, I was familiar with Tumblr. It was where I went to find the kind of content that interested me. When Tumblr was…

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